5 Exercises to Strengthen Your Core

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Repeat 1-4X

1. Up/Down Dog
2. Hydrant Extension (right)
3. Hydrant Extension (left)
4. 3 Park Core Extension
5. Extended Plank

Hi Everyone!

This is a quick core workout! Core strength is imperative in everything that you do. Your trunk powers and stabilizes all of your movements. If you don’t have a strong core you are not optimizing your workouts. Even running form and postural alignment can be optimized with core strengthening. 


Without consistent and balanced core strengthening your hips can become misaligned or tilted, which can lead to increased risk of knee injury and joint pain. 

In addition to this workout I also continued training for My First Half Marathon. I ran a challenging cross country course (all on grass, with lots of hills!) I did a total of 4.5 miles. The first 2.5 miles I completed at a challenging pace. I got a cramp during the harder portion of the run, which was not fun. I followed it up by a quick rest, and a 2 mile cool down run of the same loop. It was still a challenging course, but I slowed my pace down to allow my body to recover. 

I also did a lower body stretching routine, which I am working on uploading now. Running is a repetitive motion, so it’s important to keep your body limber and strengthen all of the muscles that create counterbalances during the running motion. 

Enjoy the workout! There will be a new one (and a stretching video!) posted today. 
Melissa

Quick Playground Workout

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Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps

*Unless otherwise noted. 

1. Hanging Leg Raise
2. Decline Pushup
3. Sprint (one) (1 minute jump rope can be substituted)
4. Hanging Leg Rotations
5. Surfer
6. Sprint (one)
7. Tick Tock Hang
8. Walking Lunge Lift
9. Sprint

Hi Everyone!

Yesterday I had to go outside and enjoy the weather! It was so beautiful that I switched up my workout plan and decided to use the playground for my workout. 🙂

It was a great reminder that you can find ways to be fit and live a healthy lifestyle where ever you may go. 

Today is the third anniversary of the day Jesse and I got married so I am going to head outside and get in a quick run while he is still at Cross Country practice. I am taking the rest of the evening off. See you all tomorrow!

Melissa




Tight Stomach Toning Workout

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Hi Everyone!

I hope you’re ready for a tummy toning workout, because this one is tough! This workout uses all of the muscles of your core, and will help sculpt your abs. I planned on pairing this one with a run, but we are still moving into our new house, and the timing just didn’t work out yesterday. 

We still have no internet connection, but I am hoping that get resolved today! We are continuing to get settled into our new home. I didn’t have my lights here yet, so if the video gets a bit dark at times I apologize. 

I hope you enjoy the new space! 🙂
Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps
*If the plank variations are to difficult, an alternative option is to hold a static plank. Choose a length of time that is challenging for you. As you build strength with correct form you will be able to progress to the more difficult variations. 

1. Crescent Plank (right)
2. Crescent Plank (left)
3. V-up/Hip Lift
4. Side Plank Leg Lift (right)
5. Side Plank Leg Lift (left)
6. Toe Tap Situps
7. Slow Mountain Climber
8. Knee Drop Plank
9. Boat Twist
10. 1/2 Burpee (no pushup)

Full Length Melissa Bender Home Workout: 25 Minutes

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Hi Everyone,

This workout is from last summer, but I am re-sharing it because it’s a good one. I haven’t had a chance to film the last few days because Jesse and I are finishing packing for our big move! I am going to post a workout schedule for the next few days, and if I have time to film I will share the new workouts. 🙂 

I think you guys are going to like the new workout location! 

Enjoy!
Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps (30 seconds)
Intermediate: 15 reps (45 seconds)
Advanced: 20 reps (60 seconds)

1. Burpee
2. Side Plank Drop with Leg Lift (right)
3. Side Plank Drop with Leg Lift (left)
4. Bicycle (timed)
5. Walking Pushups
6. Table Kick (right)
7. Table Kick (left)
8. Jump Squat
9. Down Dog Step (right)
10. Down Dog Step (left)
11. High Knees (timed)
12. Lunge Kick (right)
13. Lunge Kick (left)
14. 3 Part Abs
15. Knee Plank

Fit Foot Fashions! Shoes for Cross Training: The Crossfit Nano 2.0

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Hi Everyone!

Every time I wear these shoes in one of my workout videos I get tons of comments and questions about my shoe choice. I have several different sneakers that I like to wear for my workouts, and the Cross Fit Nano’s are high on my list of favorites for indoor workouts. 

They are breathable and comfortable. The low profile forces my body to work harder to attain balance in some of my exercises, which causes my intrinsic muscles to strengthen, instead of relying on a lot of cushion for stability. 

These are minimalist shoes, which means they have a low heel to toe drop (not a lot of cushion elevating your heels). This does require some additional flexibility through your Achilles. They offer a bit more support and lateral stability than typical minimalist shoes, allowing you additional flexibility of movement and support during workouts that require a lot of transitional movements. 

The flexibility in the sole makes these shoes good for movements like Burpees and Lunge Jumps. They are light enough that you don’t feel weighed down during sprints or box jumps. I taught most of my boot camp classes wearing these shoes. 

I have worn these shoes on the treadmill, and during shorter runs (3-5 miles). It definitely felt different. For my running needs I prefer a sturdier shoe made specifically for running, but on lighter run days or interval workouts these are great. 

Also, they come in 20 different color combinations! 🙂 

There will be a new workout tonight, so be sure to check back!
Melissa

Interview with NPC Bikini Competitor Brittany Cavicchia

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Hi Everyone! 

As you all know I recently competed in my first NPC Bikini Competition. One of the best parts of the competition was meeting the other competitors, and women who are passionate about fitness.

As I have mentioned my workouts and bikini competition prep was significantly different than the traditional bikini prep methods (I was still eating sushi, bread and oatmeal the week of competition). Competitor Brittany Cavicchia, who won first place in Bikini Open Class B at the Natural Eastern USA Championships agreed to do an interview with me to give you all a glimpse into her bikini competition prep. As you can see from the pictures above, Brittany set a goal and went for it!

You can find Brittany on Instagram @bikinibrytt.

Check out her interview below!
Melissa



1. What made you decide to compete?
 I started getting in to the competition scene on Instagram. I have a cousin and his wife who do competitions so I always knew about them but I never wanted to do it. Then when I saw all these girls on Instagram who were taking charge of their bodies and I knew if I didn’t have a goal like that then I would never get my body how I wanted it!

2. How did you select your first show and the division to compete in?

I have family in Pittsburgh and I wanted to make a mini vacation out of it. Since I’m from Florida I felt that making a big deal out of the competition would also motivate me and my family to help me get to my goal 

3. Who helped you prep?

I did everything myself until about 7 weeks out when I went to a trainer I once trained with. I knew I would need the help with competition diet and getting over my plateau. 

4. What was the hardest part of prep?

The energy! I had none!! And of course that was attributed to the diet.

5. What kept you motivated?

Myself, always! I am my number one motivation because I’m the one I’m competing against. I know I can make or break myself

6. How long was your prep?

Serious prep? About 7 weeks

7. Tell me about diet, calories, macros. Did it change or stay the same throughout? Would you like to share a sample day of meals?

Starting in November I really got in to the whole clean eating scene. I meal prepped and ate 6 small meals a day but nothing like a prep diet. About 7 weeks out is when I hit a plateau from that and got more specific. I started portioning my meat exactly and then 3 weeks out I switched to straight fish for protein. So for the horrible portion of prep I was eating 1 meal of 25g carbs in the morning but the rest was just fish and greens. Then two “higher carb” days which I could eat 25g of carbs for three meals. The diet is the hardest part!!! 

****Note (From Melissa): This is a competition diet. It is meant to be used for only a brief time, and is not a sustainable diet. Post competition Brittany returns to clean and healthy eating, which is not as restrictive as the later portions of the competition diet she is discussing here. 

8. What were your workouts like?

My split was:
Shoulders
Legs
Chest/tri/bi
Back
Cardio
Legs
Rest

On all days except rest days I did cardio and I did weighted abs about 3-4 times a week! I always tell everyone I know who are scared to start weight lifting that it is so simple! Everyone thinks I hang upside down and do crazy workouts to tone like I did. I stuck to basics for most everything and focused on keeping my heart rate up (through jumping jacks between sets) and just goin heavier every week. 

9. What is your cardio like?

From 7 weeks out I did 45 min of incline walking everyday on 15% incline at 4.2 mph. Then at 2 weeks out I started doing 1.5 hours a day and then the last week I had 5 days that I did 2 hours. I also mixed it up occasionally with the stairmaster !! 

10. Favorite snack?

Peanut butter!!!!!!! Dark chocolate peanut butter dreams from PB&Co. Or bananas. Or both together is heavenly, obviously 

11. What supplements did you use?

 I used a fat burner until 5 weeks out called Pro Power. I also used redline as a pre workout. I took Gold Standard casein before bed and every morning I had liquid L carantine.

12. Are you planning to do any more shows?

Yes! It was such an addicting rush that I will definitely do more. Looking in to a few in July and then two in November, one being nationals in Ft Lauderdale 

13. Best part about competing?

The feeling you get on stage when you realize you made it.

14. Worst part about competing?

The diet!!!! Hands down haha

15. Did you have any coaches?

Yes  his name is Dennis Shepperd and he is the owner of New Body Architects in Plantation, FL. He was amazing and did everything for me from diet to posing .

16. Fitness goals?

 I want to build build build! My legs are my weakest point and I need them to be extra solid next time around

17. Age: 22


18. Occupation:

I work for a competition bikini company called Ravish Sands based in Fort Lauderdale, FL. We make quality, affordable custom competition suits that fit any budget. Also soon to be personal trainer when I get my studying butt in gear!

19. Favorite exercise?

It’s so hard to pick! My favorite muscle group to work is definitely back so I would have to go with cable rows if I HAD to pick. But really anything that pumps my back. 

20. Favorite quote?

“Patience breeds time but pain breeds strength. Trust your struggle because you can’t ignore it” it’s from a poem I wrote.  

21. Does anyone inspire you in your fitness goals?

The people all around me everyday who lift me up and support my decisions inspire me. I’m not one to have fitness chicks on my wall for motivation because I don’t believe in aspiring to be anyone else’s body but my own. I think sometimes people get too carried away living to have someone else’s glutes/legs/back etc. They forget that everyone’s body is different and theirs to love. Build your own life and aim to inspire others to build their own! But most importantly be your own inspiration because no matter where you are in your journey – you’re progressing! Be proud of YOU.

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Full Body Shaping Home Workout

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Hi Everyone!

Today’s workout breakdown and video are both below. 

Tonight’s workout was tough on me! I came home excited and ready for a great workout, but I decided to eat an early dinner first. After dinner I sat on the couch for a minute and fell asleep. When I woke up the last thing I felt like doing was working out. It was very frustrating given my motivation earlier in the day. 
Jesse was a great supporter for me tonight, and really helped me get on track and get the workout in. It helps to have people around you who know your goals to help keep you on track. 

Since I have decided to do my first NPC competition I am also using that for motivation, and focusing a bit more on nutrition. I got in my vitamins this morning (Alkalinity Fuel from Total Nutrition Mansfield). I have been posting pictures of some of my meals on Instagram, and this weekend I will be writing more about what I eat. 

I hope you guys enjoy the workout!
Melissa

PS Check out www.facebook.com/Affitnity or www.Affitnity.com for fabulous workout clothes!

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps

1. Sideways Burpee Row
2. Side Plank Reach (right)
3. Side Plank Reach (left)
4. Heel Tap Hip Lift
5. Warrior Lunge Hop (alternating)
6. Prone Heel Tap to V-Up
7. Temple Tap Abs
8. Hamstring Ball Lift
9. Ball Pull Pushup

Easy Run Day/Jesse in the Hall of Fame

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Hi Everyone, 


This video is actually from two days ago! I went to charge my camera for today’s workout and realized that I hadn’t uploaded this. 


If you follow me on my facebook page or twitter you probably already know this, but I am super excited so I am going to share this again! 


Jesse got a call on Wednesday from a representative from Point Park University to let him know that he is being inducted into Point Park’s hall of fame for all of his running accomplishments. He was the captain of the cross country team and set many running records. 

This is a picture of Jesse winning a race in college. As you can see no one else was even close to him. The picture below is of Jesse winning a race when we were on vacation last summer. He is an inspiration to me, and his accomplishments are a great motivator for me to keep working on my running and fitness. 

There will be a brand new workout video later today so check back!

Melissa


Benefits of Hula Hooping: Hula Hoop Calorie Burn for Fitness

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Hi Everyone!

I bet you can tell by the picture what I did for my workout today! I have mentioned in recent posts how much I have been enjoying hula hooping. I decided to do a fun video for you guys, showing some of the moves that I do while I hula hoop. Generally when I am hooping I put on some music and go crazy with the hip shaking. I kept it a bit tamer for the video. I mix in all of these moves and a few more, while I am going. You can even do arm exercises, and jump with your hoop like you would with a jump rope. 

I decided to do some research, and it turns out that hooping has quite a few health benefits. It helps strengthen your abs, back. legs, and glutes (butt!) In addition, it has some great calorie burning benefits. Hula Hooping can burn as many calories as Boot Camp workouts, or Step Aerobics! One study (click here to read it!) found that hooping burns about 7 calories per minute, or 210 calories for half an hour. 

I know I worked up a sweat! Hula Hooping also has the added benefit of being fun! Weighted hula hoops move more slowly and stay up easier. Lighter hoops require faster movement. Hooping even works your brain and has been shown to have some meditative benefits due to the repetitive movements. 

So what do you think? Are you going to try it? 

Melissa 

I did each movement for 1 minute, and then reversed the direction of the hula hoop (counter-clockwise to clockwise) and repeated. 


1. Hula Hoop
2. Goddess Pose/Squat
3. Right Lunge
4. Left Lunge
5. Right Leg Lift
6. Left Leg Lift
7. March


Reverse and Repeat as desired.

Basic Home Workout with Weights: Melissa Bender

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Hi Everyone,

I mixed it up a bit, and used some weights in my workout today. It’s a very basic workout, and I tried to focus on having really good form for everything, instead of just speed. 

I also ended up hula hooping for an hour this evening! I forgot how much I love hula hooping. I put my ipod on shuffle and just kept going. Jesse was out doing a hard run, and I had no idea how long I was going for until he got back!

We went out to lunch with Justin LaBar (Twitter: @JustinLaBar) and we took a bicep photo. Did you guys know I have a whole wardrobe of clothes that aren’t made for working out in? 🙂

Anyway, enjoy the workout and have a great 4th of July!

Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps


1. Kettlebell Swing (right)
2. Kettlebell Swing (left)
3. Curls
4. Warrior Deadlift (right)
5. Warrior Deadlift (left)
6. Rows
7. Squat
8. Good Morning
9. Squat Jump
10. Tricep Drop

Pushup Challenge: 9 pushup variations

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Hi Everyone,


This video is in response to a challenge I posted on facebook. The result of the challenge was that I had to do 45 pushups. You know me, I had to keep it interesting so I did 9 different variations of pushups during the challenge. I also gave a shout out to each of my followers on facebook that I was doing pushups for!


Melissa Bender on Facebook Click that link if you want to “like” my facebook page. 🙂


Melissa

I did 5 pushups of each style listed below:


1. Spiderman pushup
2. Walking pushup
3. Chatarunga pushup
4. Right Leg Lift pushup
5. Left Leg Lift pushup
6. Jumping Jack pushup
7. Rolling pushup
8. Decline Pushup
9. Supergirl Pushup

Shape and Tone Full Body: Melissa Bender

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Hi Everyone,

This was my workout tonight. I also did a 3 mile run earlier this morning with Jesse. I did this workout interval style the first time through, and repetitions the second time. 

I also created a post about what I eat/my typical diet: My Diet so check that out if you’re interested. 

There will be a new workout tomorrow. I am off to sit outside by the fire pit, and spend some time with friends. Have a great evening!

Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps


Repeat 2-3X


or you can do the workout interval style: Max reps during each 50 second interval, with 10 seconds of rest in between. 


1. Single Leg Lunge Jump (right)
2. Single Leg Lunge Jump (left)
3. Mountain Climber Pushups
4. 3 Way Lunge (right)
5. 3 Way Lunge (left)
6. Oblique Drop Side Plank (right)
7. Oblique Drop Side Plank (left)
8. V-Up
9. Heel Press (right)
10. Heel Press (left)
11. Chair Pulse
12. Bicycle
13. Hip Lift
14. Weighted Oblique Drop (right)
15. Weighted Oblique Drop (left)
16. Burpees

Strong and Hard Body Workout: Melissa Bender Fitness

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Hi Everyone!

Tonight’s workout is here. 🙂 After finishing this workout I ran 3.5 miles outside with Jesse. I had a crazy busy weekend, so I wasn’t able to update. Yesterday I kept it simple and went for a walk outside. I was exhausted, so I listened to my body and took it easy. 

On Saturday we went to a wedding, and I spent about 4 hours on the dance floor. Friday I ran 4.65 miles outside. Those were my workouts this weekend. I am planning on filming several new workouts this week, so check back for a new one tomorrow. 

If you are in the Los Angeles area be sure to check out the yoga event: Downward Dog for Cats It’s a day of yoga outside in the park to raise money for a local non-profit cat shelter. 

Enjoy the workout!
Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps


Equipment I used (optional): 10 pound kettlebell, stability ball, and dip station.


1. Jump Squat
2. Tap and Curl (right)
3. Tap and Curl (left)
4. V-Up
5. Cheek to Cheek Plank
6. Frogger
7. Warrior 3 Squat
8. Rolling Mountain Climber Pushup
9. Lunge Jump
10. L Sit Leg Lift
11. Heel Press Plank (right)
12. Heel Press Plank (left)
13. 1 Leg Reach (on ball) 
14. Ab Pull In (on ball)

20 Minute Hard Body Full Length Workout

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Hi Everyone!

Getting this workout uploaded has been a long process, but here it is! (Finally!) This workout was actually a lot harder than I expected. As you will see in the video I was dripping sweat everywhere after going through it once. 


Also, a thunderstorm cut our run short, so instead of doing a 3.5 mile run, we only did 1.5 miles. 


I am about to film tonight’s workout, hopefully it won’t take as long to upload. Enjoy this one!

Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps


1. Lunge Jump
2. Temple Tap Abs
3. Ninja Double Jump
4. Warrior Deadlift (right)
5. Warrior Deadlift (left)
6. Triple Reach
7. Hip Drop Reach (right)
8. Hip Drop Reach (left)
9. Hip Lift
10. Curtsy Lunge

15 Minute Body Sculpting Workout

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Hi Everyone!


My workout for the day is posted below. I filmed it full length tonight. 🙂 It was challenging, and I got super sweaty throughout. This is a full body workout, but I really felt it in my abs/core. This is definitely one that I will be repeating! 


I went through the entire workout twice. It took me about 15 minutes each time (so 30 minutes total). 


For dinner Jesse and I tried something new. We made a green curry grilled eggplant, and grilled chicken. It is absolutely delicious! I will be repeating this dinner soon so I can take pictures and share the recipe. 🙂


Enjoy the workout, and have a great night!


Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps
Intermediate: 15 reps
Advanced: 20 reps

Repeat 2X

1. Squat Jump
2. Down Dog Abs (right)
3. Squat Lift
4. Down Dog Abs (left)
5. Curtsy Lunge
6. Plank Heel Press (right)
7. Plank Heel Press (left)
8. Oblique V-Up (right)
9. Oblique V-Up (left)
10. Scissor
11. Plank Extensions
12. Frog Abs

5 for 5 Workout

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Hi Everyone! 


Tonight’s workout is here. 🙂 This workout is different than most of my workouts. I made it to focus on toning, while maintaining flexibility. I went through the entire workout 5 times, so it took 25 minutes. The video is full length so you can adjust it to your level of fitness. If 5X is too much, you don’t have to go through it that many times. 


It’s not a super high intensity workout, but by the end you should be nice and sweaty! Give each move everything you’ve got, and focus on form. 


Tomorrow night expect a high intensity workout!
Melissa

All Levels: Maximum number of reps during each 50 second interval, 10 seconds of rest between each exercise. 


1. Up/Down Dog (Dive Bombers)
2. Squat Pulse
3. Toe Touch
4. Chair Pulse
5. Rotating Plank


Repeat 5X for a total of 25 minutes. 

Strong and Tight Body Workout

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Hi Everyone,


Tonight’s workout was tough! I actually did the exercises in a different order than I filmed in the video. When I went through the workout I did it by section: cardio, arms, butt/hamstrings, and abs. In the video I switched up the rounds so that each section had one exercise from each round. Either way it will be effective. 🙂


I also did a 3.5 mile run outside. It was the same loop as yesterday, but I talked to Jesse the entire run and it took 31 minutes, and 31 seconds. I needed to do a more relaxed run after doing this workout!


There will be a new workout video tomorrow. 
See you then,
Melissa

Beginner: 10 reps, 30 seconds timed exercises
Intermediate: 15 reps, 45 seconds
Advanced: 20 reps, 60 seconds


As Filmed:


Round 1:
1. Jumping Jacks
2. Reverse Pushups
3. Kettlebell Swings (alternating arms)
4. V-Up with Ball


Repeat 3X


Round 2:
1. High Knees Jump Squat
2. Dips
3. Romanian Deadlift
4. Ball Rotation


Repeat 3X


Round 3:
1. Jump Rope (timed)
2. Decline Pushups with Ball
3. Resistance Band Leg Extension
4. Bicycle Abs (timed)


Repeat 3X


How Jesse and I did the workout tonight:


Round 1:
1. Jumping Jacks
2. High Knees Jump Squats
3. Jump Rope (timed)


Round 2: 
1. Reverse Pushups
2. Dips
3. Decline Pushups with Ball


Round 3: 
1. Kettlebell Swing
2. Romanian Deadlift
3. Resistance Band Leg Extension


Round 4:
1. V-Up with Ball
2. Ball Rotation
3. Bicycle (timed)


Round 1

Abs and Cardio

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Hi Everyone,

Tonight I did a 3.5 mile run outside. Yesterday’s workout was tough! I wanted to be sure I got some cardio in today. I am also repeating the ab workout below tonight. It’s only 10 minutes, but it’s a great one for working your entire core. If I hadn’t run I would have done the 15 Minute Cardio workout with this workout.

I have said this before, but I want to re-iterate. The workouts I post on my blog are the workouts I do to keep in shape.

I will also post a video about my diet soon. By diet I mean what I eat on a daily basis. I am not on a “diet” as most people use the term.

Have a great night!
Melissa

Max reps during each interval!

  1. High Knees
  2. Supergirl
  3. Crossed Leg Lift (right)
  4. Crossed Leg Lift (left)
  5. Plank Leg Lift
  6. Ab Kick Out
  7. Side Plank Lift (right)
  8. Side Plank Lift (left)
  9. Hip Lift
  10. High Knees

Thanksgiving Burpee Challenge/Ab workout

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Hi Everyone!

I hope you had a great Thanksgiving! I hope you didn’t think I was going to skimp on my workout just because it’s a holiday!

I did a bit of a workout mash-up tonight. I started out with a Burpee challenge. I wanted to see how quickly I could do 60 Burpees. After that I did an ab workout on my dip station. Jesse wasn’t home so I didn’t film it, but I will be sure to share it with you guys this week. A great alternative would be to do the 10 Minute Ab Workout video. I finished my workout with two full sun salutations.

I will be back with a new video for you tomorrow. Have a great night.

Melissa

Here is the Sun Salutation Video:

Part 1: The workout starts with doing 60 Burpees. You don’t have to do them all at once. I did three sets of 20, with short breaks in between. You can split up your reps however you want to complete them. (I did my first 20 in 2 minutes 15 seconds, second 20 2:04, third 20 2:27).

Part 2:

Next do the 10 minute ab workout.

Part 3:

Do two full sun salutations to stretch and strengthen your entire body.

You’re done! Have a great night. 🙂