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Sample Meal Plan
Hi Everyone,
Since competing in my first NPC Bikini Competition and sharing my training here, I have received a lot questions about my diet.
There are a lot of scary and dangerous diet plans out there, especially when it comes to the world of fitness and physique competitions. People often go to extremes to get the physiques that you see on stage.
I used a completely different approach to my diet and training than you typically see. I never stepped foot in a gym, and did all of my workouts at home. Also, the lowest my caloric intake ever went was about 1800-1900 calories per day. That is lower than my normal calorie consumption, but not dramatically. I averaged between 1900-2000 calories per day over the course of my 12 week prep. Some days my calories were 2200-2400.
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| Lunch packed for work: Tilapia, fresh baby spinach, tomatoes. Sweet Potato, zucchini, squash, eggplant. Granny Smith Apple. |
A diet is not necessarily about restricting calories, it’s about determining what type of fuel your body needs. I was never hungry during competition prep. When I stepped on stage I wasn’t drained, I felt healthier and stronger than ever.
The biggest change I made was cutting out sweets for the last 6 weeks. I satisfied my sweet tooth with healthy options like fruit, and recipes like this one: Peanut Butter Oat Stuffed Baked Apples. I also cut out my french vanilla coffee creamer, and used Almond/Coconut milk instead or a homemade clean coffee creamer.
I have shared my meal prep, grocery list, and a typical day of meals during my competition prep.
I also logged a majority of my meals during competition prep. I am sharing some of them below. *I logged my food at the end of the day instead of pre-logging because I wanted to be sure I was following my bodies hunger signals and not getting to caught up on the numbers.
You will see that my diet stayed consistent throughout my prep. I did not carb deplete, but I did focus on getting a lot of my carbohydrates from vegetables.
If you are preparing for a competition please remember to focus on keeping your body healthy throughout your prep. Your diet should be individualized to your needs, but you should never feel like you are starving. Food is nourishment and fuel for everything you do.
Breakfast:
Coffee with Organic So Delicious Unsweetened Coconut Milk
100 Calorie Whole Wheat Flat Bread Roll
1 Large Egg
Fresh Baby Spinach (on my egg sandwich)
AM Snack:
Fruit and Nut Trail Mix Bar
Lunch:
2 Cups Baby Spinach with 5 Cherry Tomatoes
2 Cups Baked Spaghetti Squash
4 oz Boneless Skinless Chicken Breast
2 Stalks of Celery with Smucker’s Organic All Natural Peanut Butter (2 Tbsp)
1/2 Cup Black Seedless Grapes
PM Snack:
Green Smoothie (This recipe minus the kiwi: She Hulk Smoothie Recipe)
Included:
1/2 cup almond milk
1/2 cup coconut milk
1 cup 0% Greek Yogurt Plain
2 cups spinach
1 tablespoon almond butter
1/2 Banana
Dinner:
Quinoa Vegetable Pilaf (Quinoa, spinach, cherry tomatos, eggplant, zucchini, onion, tomato, extra virgin olive oil)
Boneless Skinless Chicken Breast with 1 tablespoon cream of chicken soup
Breakfast:
Coffee with Unsweetened Coconut Milk
Maple Brown Sugar Oatmeal with fresh Walnuts
Fit and Active Chocolate Peanut Butter Protein Meal Bar
AM Snack:
1 Slice Whole Wheat Bread
1 Tablespoon Smucker’s Natural Peanut Butter
Lunch:
Crockpot Spinach and Tomato Chicken 1.5 cups
Walnut and Spinach Salad
Granny Smith Apple
After Work Snack:
Peanut Butter Greek Yogurt with dark chocolate chips
Dinner:
Sushi (A mixed combination)
After Dinner Snack:
Almond Coconut Milk
Crunch Cranberry Almond Multi-grain cereal (1 cup)
Hi Everyone!
The video above is Jesse’s ab challenge. The exercises using the dip station were from his ab challenge yesterday, and the bicycle and cheek to cheek plank were from his workout today. He also added to the challenge by doing all of the ab moves from my workout tonight. That one is still uploading, but I will share the link when it’s ready.
Today is day 3 of my no sweets challenge. It was a lot harder today because we had a birthday party at work! That meant someone brought in a giant cookie cake, and chocolate thumbprint cookies. We also had all kinds of dips (which I did partake in) and I brought the salad. I tend to bring something healthy to all events so that everyone has options. Also, even when you are indulging it’s good to fill yourself up with a something healthy so you don’t over do it on the unhealthy items.
So here is my food log, and today’s workout will be posted as soon as it’s done uploading!
Breakfast:
Udi’s Gluten Free Whole Grain Bread (2 slices)
Egg Whites
Spinach
1/3 Aldi Light Spreadable Cheese Wedge
Coffee with Coconut Milk
Lunch:
Baked Tilapia with shrimp, corn and tomatoes (left overs from dinner last night)
Buffalo Chicken Dip
Spinach Artichoke Dip
Flatbread Crackers
Tortilla Chips
After Work Snacks:
Spinach, Banana and Peach Smoothie (with a bit of coffee thrown in)
Peanut Butter Greek Yogurt
Pre-Workout Snack:
Udi Whole Grain Gluten Free Bread (1 slice)
1 tablespoon of natural peanut butter
Dinner:
Whole Wheat Penne Pasta (1 cup cooked)
1/2 cup tomato basil sauce
3 artichoke hearts
3 kalamatta olives
Totals:
Calories: 1996
Carbs: 191 grams
Fat: 74 grams
Protein: 127 grams
Fiber: 27 grams
Hi Everyone!
Today is Day 2 of my food logging/no sweets challenge. It’s been a good day! My energy is so much better. I didn’t even need my afternoon cup of coffee. 🙂
No sweets cravings today. I am feeling great physically and mentally.
Jesse is meeting one of our friends for a workout tonight. He is going to show me the core workout moves he does when he gets home. Our friend is a former Marine, and current police officer, and he said he has some great moves to share with us.
Thank you to those of you who shared recipes today! Team Bender member, Haley, inspired my dinner when she shared her photo/recipe. (Thanks Haley!) I love cooking, and finding fun and healthy recipes to try out. I have also pinned a ton of recipes lately on my pinterest page: www.pinterest.com/BenderFitness.
So here is my food log. My first two meals were almost identical to yesterday.
Breakfast:
(Egg Sandwich, Coffee with Unsweetened Coconut Milk)
1 Egg
Whole Wheat Sandwich Thin
Spinach
1/3 25 calorie cheese spread
AM Snack:
Snuck into my lunch and had a few celery stalks dipped in PB Greek Yogurt.
Lunch:
Fresh Baby Spinach Leaf salad with cherry tomatoes
1/2 Avocado with egg, spinach and cherry tomatoes
Peanut Butter Greek Yogurt
2-3 Stalks Celery
Fresh Cut Pineapple (about 1 cup)
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| Peanut Butter Greek Yogurt, and freshly cut Pineapple |
After Work Snack:
Aldi Chicken Salad Kit (1 serving crackers and chicken salad)
1 Slice Udi’s Gluten Free Whole Wheat Bread
1 tablespoon natural PB
Dinner:
Baked Tilapia and Shrimp with lemon juice and Old Bay
Sliced Roma Tomatoes
Corn (I used sodium free, canned. Fresh would be even better)
Tortilla Chips
(*Jesse ate his as a soft taco with spinach leaves and Greek yogurt)
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| Baked Tilapia, Shrimp, Tomatoes and Corn in lemon juice and old Bay. |
After Dinner Snack:
Spinach, Peach and Banana Smoothie
Hi Everyone,
I have been sharing my competition journey with everyone for almost 12 weeks now! I can’t believe how quickly time flies, and how close I am to competition day. In less than 24 hours my competition will be over!
This week has been really hectic. I apologize for not being able to share any workouts. The week before a bikini competition is filled with appointments! 
Wednesday I got my nails and toenails done, and had my first spray tan appointment. For my mani/pedi I kept it easy and got a french manicure. I have come to think of the spray tan as stage makeup.
I had my second spray tan Friday night, for my Saturday show. The tan looks insanely dark in person, but on stage it will keep me from looking washed out in the lights. Here is a picture of me looking exhausted and overly tan. I am not allowed to take a shower until after the competition. This is no fun for two reasons. One, I really want a shower and I think the tan smells funny. Two, it means no workout for me because the sweat will mess up my color.
It is very strange to me that I have worked out far less this week than I normally do. Between work and all the last minute appointments to get ready for the show (and the shower/sweat restrictions) there has been no time.
The tan definitely helps your muscles pop, and helps even out your skin tone.
As far as diet, I have made a few changes this week. I am focusing on staying below my normal intake of sodium and sugar. It is hard to stay below the daily recommended serving of sugar, because I typically eat a lot of fruit. The daily recommended serving of sugar per day is 39 grams. For the past two days I switched my normal egg sandwich on a whole wheat sandwich thin for egg whites, and a half cup of oatmeal in the morning.
I have been drinking a green smoothie daily (click the link for the recipe. I omitted the kiwi this week.) I am also eating about 150 grams of carbs per day. I did not eliminate dairy, and have been having Greek yogurt every day. I have been craving peanut butter (it’s one of my favorite foods, but I have been even more hungry for it than normal!) I have been putting PB in my smoothies, mixing it with Greek yogurt, or even just eating a spoonful for a snack. I am still eating 1800-2000 calories per day.
I will be posting a more thorough breakdown of my diet this week, as well as a breakdown of the day of the competition.
I can’t wait!
Melissa
Hi Everyone,
By popular request on my facebook page, I am writing about my diet. I have given you a glimpse into my meal prep with photos in my post: Abs Are Made in the Kitchen. I have shared my grocery list: Melissa Bender’s Grocery List, which also has pictures of some typical meals. You can also see meal pictures on my Instagram page.
Whatever I meal prep on Sundays I tend to eat for lunch during the week. Below is a sample day of eating. It is pretty typical. The veggies may change. (I love vegetables)! Sometimes I crave a bowl full of broccoli or mixed veggies with a touch of marinara sauce.
I average between 1900-2000 calories per day. I eat/snack all day long. I am hungry every few hours, so I bring a lot of food to work with me. I have chicken and salmon salads pre-packed in my fridge right now. I have one for lunch Mon-Friday and some weekends. I always keep a granny smith apple in my lunch (which I may have as a morning snack, with lunch, or afternoon snack. I listen to my bodies hunger signals). I also drink 10-12 glasses of water per day.
There is no trick or crazy diet technique. I try to eat primarily foods that are unprocessed. I cook/prepare almost all of my meals at home. I eat when I am hungry, and try to make healthy choices. I incorporate all of the food groups into my diet. I am super busy so I don’t spend a lot of time in the kitchen. I try to keep meal prep simple.
Here’s a glimpse into what I eat.
Melissa
Breakfast
-Whole Wheat Sandwich Thin or Ezekial Low Sodium Bread
1 Egg
Fresh Baby Spinach
Hummus
-Or Oatmeal with Maple Brown Sugar and Fresh Walnuts. (If I have oatmeal, I have my breakfast sandwich as my 10 AM snack).
-Coffee with Coconut Almond Milk (unsweetened) or Unsweetened Vanilla Almond Milk
Snack
-Apple, Orange or Banana
-or Trail Mix, Granola, or Triscuits
-or Breakfast Sandwich
Lunch
-Chicken or Salmon
-Fresh Baby Spinach Leaves
-3-4 Cherry or Grape Tomatoes
-Peanut Butter Greek Yogurt
-Veggies (whatever I have prepped for the week)
-4 oz Sweet Potato (sometimes)
Snack
-Banana sliced in half with Organic Peanut Butter
-or PB Greek Yogurt (if I didn’t have it for lunch)
-or PB Bread
-or Green Smoothie
Dinner
-Salmon or Chicken
-Broccoli
Snack
-Cereal (Raisin Bran or Shredded Wheat) (about 1 cup)
-Coconut Almond Milk
-or Bowl of Veggies, plain or with red sauce.
Hi Everyone!
I am going to give you a glimpse into my Sundays. Sunday has become the day when I prepare to eat healthy all week long. It makes mornings, and packing my lunch for work much easier. Plus it gives me plenty of healthy options that I can grab on the go, and helps stave off unhealthy cravings.
I have also implemented Slow Cooker Sundays. I use the crockpot and make something for dinner, that I will also enjoy for leftovers during the week.
So what did I prep? I’m glad you asked!
I usually bake some chicken, fish, or both. This week I did chicken, and made Seafood Stew in my crockpot.
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| Baked Vegetables, Baked Sweet Potatoes, Chicken, and Butternut Squash Medley |

I recently started measuring out portions of some of my foods. I weighed my chicken, and separated it into 4 oz. portions that I can easily grab or add to my lunch. The container’s with the blue lid I typically add spinach leaves and some grape tomatoes to make a quick chicken salad. Other times I toss the chicken with some vegetables, or even make an avocado chicken salad (click for the recipe).
I cut up the chicken breast to make it easy for lunch, plus it can be added to a quick stirfry during the week if you want to make a fast dinner.
I also baked two trays of vegetables. I love veggies, and I like to have some type of vegetable with every meal. These are my trays of vegetables before they went in the oven.
The top photo is butternut squash, onions, and grape tomatoes. When I put the tin foil down I lightly brushed it with extra virgin olive oil. On top I lightly sprinkled some coconut oil. I incorporate healthy fats into
my diet. When cooking the squash I covered the dish with tin foil to allow it to soften.
The second photo is zucchini, asparagus and grape tomatoes. I lightly brushed olive oil on the tin foil before baking, and then I added a touch of fresh ground pepper, and fresh ground sea salt. Delicious, and easy. I baked both veggie dishes at 375, at the same time as I was baking my chicken and sweet potatoes.
I don’t do anything special with my sweet potatoes. I poke them with a fork, set them in a glass dish, and cook until they are slightly soft to the touch (I wear my oven glove while testing this. Don’t get burned!) To make sure they are ready for lunch I cut them in half. One serving of sweet potatoes is 4 oz. Usually I just bake small sweet potatoes, and guesstimate them to be around 4 oz. Today I baked larger potatoes, and weighed them. Cutting it in half gave me a 4 oz serving.
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| 4 oz serving of Sweet Potatoes |
When the squash was almost done cooking I added some fresh baby spinach (Kale is another great option), walnuts, and dried cranberries. It’s also delicious with some feta, but I didn’t have any today so I left it out. This is one of my favorite side dishes, and it’s also great as a vegetarian meal, or with some chicken thrown in.
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| Shrimp, Tilapia, and Veggies over Brown Rice. |
When I pack my lunches all week I will have plenty of nutritious, filling, and tasty things to chose from. Plus, if I don’t have a lot of time I can keep dinner simple by throwing some chicken or fish in the oven, and still have some great vegetables ready to go on the side.
Hi Everyone,
Many people have been asking about my diet. I am going to share some pictures to give you an idea of what I eat, and list some foods that I might have on a typical day.
Any of the recipes that I share on my blog are things that I would normally eat.
Breakfast: